Win Butler performs live with Arcade Fire in July 2022. Credit: Mark Horton/Getty Images. This story contains descriptions of attempted suicide and alleged ...
I say to you all my friends, family, to anyone I have hurt and to the people who love my music and are shocked and disappointed by this report: I’m sorry. I know what is in his heart, and I know he has never, and would never, touch a woman without her consent and I am certain he never did. “There is no easy way to say this, and the hardest thing I have ever done is having to share this with my son. He has lost his way and he has found his way back. Butler added that “[Fiona] messaged me after saying that the experience of hooking up with me had been difficult on her mentally, which was really surprising and very sad to me”. I have connected with people in person, at shows, and through social media, and I have shared messages of which I am not proud. But at times, it has been difficult to balance being the father, husband, and bandmate that I want to be. We have been together for twenty years, she is my partner in music and in life, my soulmate and I am lucky and grateful to have her by my side. According to the report, one message to Fiona from Butler was alleged to have read: “Just promise me it’s private and you won’t tell people I messaged you or screen grab it or anything!” Of the alleged exchanges, Sarah told Pitchfork: “He used me, basically, as his personal therapist, and easy way to get sex over the phone. Responding to the allegation from Stella in his statement, Butler said: “Later, we met up for a drink and she got quite drunk and was asking me forcefully if there was somewhere we could sleep together. I can now see how it could be overwhelming thinking back to when I was 18, but at the time I didn’t appreciate that.”
Four people say singer sent them unwanted sexual messages during incidents from 2015 to 2020.
In a statement, Chassagne said she was “certain” he had never touched a woman without consent. She added: “He has lost his way and he has found his way back. He said he did not recognise the significance of the age gap at the time but could now see “how it could be overwhelming”. In response, Fiona said of her depression: “It was absolutely related to him.” She said the singer later began “repeatedly sending her explicit texts without her consent or reciprocation” and she told him they were not wanted. One of Butler’s accusers, a gender-fluid individual who uses they/them pronouns and is given the pseudonym Lily, said they believed Butler had sexually assaulted them.
Four accusers have spoken out against the musician, accusing him of “inappropriate” actions between 2015 and 2020. All fans of the band, they allege that they ...
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Arcade Fire frontman Win Butler has been accused of sexual assault by three women and a gender-fluid person. He claimed encounters were "consensual."
"I have stood by him because I know he is a good man who cares about this world, our band, his fans, friends, and our family," she said. That simply, and unequivocally, never happened," Butler said. "We immediately talked on the phone and although she indicated her depression was not related to me, I left that conversation committed to never sleeping with someone again that I fundamentally knew so little about. "I remember being so nervous and so ashamed that I did it," Sarah said. "I did everything because it was him," Sarah said. Butler was 36 at the start of the allegations.
The Canadian musician, who co-founded Arcade Fire in 2001, has responded to the accounts in the Pitchfork report by stating: “While these relationships were all ...
I say to you all my friends, family, to anyone I have hurt and to the people who love my music and are shocked and disappointed by this report: I’m sorry. I know what is in his heart, and I know he has never, and would never, touch a woman without her consent and I am certain he never did. I continued to doubt the validity of my behaviours and my assertion of my ‘no’ and lack of consent for months after.” There is no easy way to say this, and the hardest thing I have ever done is having to share this with my son. Life is filled with tremendous pain and error, and I never want to be part of causing someone else’s pain. He has lost his way and he has found his way back. Continuing, Butler added: “As I look to the future, I am continuing to learn from my mistakes and working hard to become a better person, someone my son can be proud of. I can do better and I will do better.“ But at times, it has been difficult to balance being the father, husband, and bandmate that I want to be. I have connected with people in person, at shows, and through social media, and I have shared messages of which I am not proud. We have been together for twenty years, she is my partner in music and in life, my soulmate and I am lucky and grateful to have her by my side. One of the anonymous sources under the pseudonym Lily, however, claims that he touched and kissed her without expressed consent and that she was forced to shout at him to stop.
Butler, 42, has been married to his Arcade Fire bandmate Régine Chassange since 2003 and they share a nine-year-old son. The musician has addressed the ...
He has lost his way and he has found his way back. She added: ‘I know what is in his heart, and I know he has never, and would never, touch a woman without her consent and I am certain he never did. He concluded: ‘I say to you all my friends, family, to anyone I have hurt and to the people who love my music and are shocked and disappointed by this report: I’m sorry. He has been my partner in life and in music for 20 years. ‘There is no easy way to say this, and the hardest thing I have ever done is having to share this with my son. But at times, it has been difficult to balance being the father, husband, and bandmate that I want to be.
In a written statement to Pitchfork, Butler (via crisis public relations expert Risa Heller) admitted to having extramarital relationships, but said that the ...
I know what is in his heart, and I know he has never, and would never, touch a woman without her consent and I am certain he never did. I say to you all my friends, family, to anyone I have hurt and to the people who love my music and are shocked and disappointed by this report: I’m sorry. Life is filled with tremendous pain and error, and I never want to be part of causing someone else’s pain. There is no easy way to say this, and the hardest thing I have ever done is having to share this with my son. But at times, it has been difficult to balance being the father, husband, and bandmate that I want to be. In July 2020, Stella publicly accused Butler in an Instagram post in which she called him a “sexual predator.” “He would constantly try to coerce me into sexual encounters and sending nude photos of myself and sending unsolicited nude pictures of himself after I repeatedly told him I was not interested,” she wrote. I would never assault anyone and I did not assault [Lily]. I stopped and I left. Butler’s wife and Arcade Fire bandmate Régine Chassagne also provided a statement, saying, “I know what is in his heart, and I know he has never, and would never, touch a woman without her consent and I am certain he never did. It was an attempt to be sexy, and it was so not OK in the context.” Responding to the alleged incident, Butler said: […] I’m sorry I wasn’t more aware and tuned in to the effect I have on people – I fucked up, and while not an excuse, I will continue to look forward and heal what can be healed, and learn from past experiences.” You can read the full statement below. “I have never touched a woman against her will, and any implication that I have is simply false,” Butler said.
Multiple people have accused the Arcade Fire frontman of "inappropriate" behavior.
I know what is in his heart, and I know he has never, and would never, touch a woman without her consent and I am certain he never did. I say to you all my friends, family, to anyone I have hurt and to the people who love my music and are shocked and disappointed by this report: I’m sorry. He has lost his way and he has found his way back. Life is filled with tremendous pain and error, and I never want to be part of causing someone else’s pain. There is no easy way to say this, and the hardest thing I have ever done is having to share this with my son. I can do better and I will do better. I have stood by him because I know he is a good man who cares about this world, our band, his fans, friends, and our family. I have connected with people in person, at shows, and through social media, and I have shared messages of which I am not proud. But at times, it has been difficult to balance being the father, husband, and bandmate that I want to be. We have been together for twenty years, she is my partner in music and in life, my soulmate and I am lucky and grateful to have her by my side. It’s after that where the stories diverge, with most of the accusers saying that Butler made unwanted advances and Butler saying that everything between him and these accusers had been entirely consensual. Pitchfork says that at least one of the accusers (their accounts are all presented pseudonymously) found Butler’s statement “frustrating” because he both apologized and “challenged their recollections point by point.