Vanessa Feltz

The presenter, 55, has given advice to Vanessa Feltz following her split from 'cheating' ex-fiancé Ben Ofoedu , who she had been in a relationship with for ...

And I’m so determined to enjoy everything I’m given to have. 'So, I was absolutely determined to wring every ounce of happiness and fun and adventure and excitement from every day. I don’t want to be derailed from it.' I am not going to let this defeat me.' She added: 'It’s hard then, because you're on track to be appreciating every minute and you’re feeling so sad. Vanessa continued: 'The thing is, that my mum died at 57 years old and I have mourned her every day. I feel incredibly grateful, I’m so pleased to be alive. I don't even really want to discuss that person at all.' I am absolutely determined to put my best foot forward, to keep on trucking, all that sort of stuff. I was so pleased. I don't even really have the urge to. Very hurt, very sad, terribly disappointed, worried about the future, all the normal stuff – of course I am.'

The singer from Brighton band Phats and Small has broken his silence after a TV star confirmed their split.

“I haven’t been on Instagram for three weeks and that’s because my relationship with Ben is over after 16 years and I honestly didn’t know what to say to you on Instagram. She told The Sun that Ben, who performed with the band for a number of years, had moved out of their home. Vanessa Feltz's ex fiance Ben Ofoedu has spoken out after the broadcaster announced their split on her Instagram on Sunday.

Vanessa Feltz has shared how she's coping with her heartbreak after a shock split from her fiancé Ben Ofoedu, revealing that she know she's 'not herself' as ...

It’s not like I'm a stranger to this stuff. “Like I said, I feel sad. I feel terribly humiliated. I feel hurt. That isn’t a ridiculous thing to do. [she would not let the shock of the relationship breakdown consume her,](https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/vanessa-feltz-thought-shed-ex-29157223) she said: “I’m not alone and I’ve been through it before. I’ve already had a horrible divorce, but I'm absolutely not going to let it grind me down.” [This Morning](https://www.mirror.co.uk/all-about/this-morning) today, she said she has found enormous solace in the support she has received from others. Vanessa went on to say that she has taken comfort in assurances from those around her that she was not wrong to have trusted her long-time partner. [Holly Willoughby](https://www.mirror.co.uk/all-about/holly-willoughby) and Phillip Schofield: “When you have to end a relationship it’s very hard. "That was great, I know she's not a therapy baby but that was great," she added. [Vanessa Feltz](https://www.mirror.co.uk/all-about/vanessa-feltz) has revealed she's "not hungry" following her [heartbreaking split](https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/disappointed-vanessa-feltz-splits-fianc-29132998) from Ben Ofoedu after 16 years together.

The 60-year-old broadcaster joined Phillip Schofield and Holly Willoughby on the programme to talk about parting from Ben after sixteen years together. See her ...

She did, however, say she was trying to "look on the bright side". "I can't sleep at all so reading thousands and thousands of messages from lovely people on Instagram is something to do in the middle of the night," she explained. "I really do want to focus on the future," she shared. It's not like I'm a stranger to this stuff, I've already had a horrible divorce. See her heartbreaking reaction in the video below. [Vanessa Feltz](https://www.hellomagazine.com/tags/vanessa-feltz/) has revealed that she feels "terribly humiliated" while opening up about her [split from fiancé Ben Ofoedu](https://www.hellomagazine.com/brides/20230206163613/this-morning-vanessa-feltz-real-reason-split-fiance-ben-ofoedu/) on ITV's [This Morning](https://www.hellomagazine.com/tags/this-morning/) on Wednesday.

Vanessa Feltz urged This Morning viewers to contact her about the best ways to get over heartbreak following her split from Ben Ofoedu.

[Vanessa Feltz and Ben Ofoedu’s relationship timeline as couple split after 16 years](https://metro.co.uk/2023/02/06/vanessa-feltz-ben-ofoedus-16-year-relationship-timeline-amid-split-18229471/?ico=more_text_links) I haven’t got to the bit where I can look back on it, I’m right in it.’ [Vanessa Feltz looks in amazing spirits after split from fiance Ben Ofoedu as he finally posts heartbroken update](https://metro.co.uk/2023/02/06/vanessa-feltz-in-top-spirits-as-shes-seen-after-split-from-ben-ofoedu-18232495/?ico=more_text_links) [broken heart to his Instagram stories.](https://metro.co.uk/2023/02/06/vanessa-feltz-in-top-spirits-as-shes-seen-after-split-from-ben-ofoedu-18232495/) If anyone wants it from me.. [Vanessa Feltz ](https://metro.co.uk/tag/vanessa-feltz/)urged [This Morning](https://metro.co.uk/tag/this-morning/?ico=auto_link_entertainment_P1_LNK1) viewers to contact her about the best ways to get over heartbreak following her split from Ben Ofoedu.

Vanessa Feltz has been offered tips to overcome heartbreak after her split from Urika Jonsson in her latest column.

I haven’t got to the bit where I can look back on it, I’m right in it,’ she admitted. [Molly-Mae Hague addresses ‘nasty’ backlash to baby girl Bambi’s name](https://metro.co.uk/2023/02/08/molly-mae-hague-addresses-nasty-backlash-to-baby-girl-bambis-name-18250167/?ico=more_text_links) [her heart had ‘snapped into a million pieces’](https://metro.co.uk/2023/02/07/vanessa-feltzs-heartbroken-after-split-from-fiance-ben-ofoedu-18236695/) following the separation and confessed she was worried about the future, but was determined to ‘keep on trucking’. [Love Island fans are all saying the same thing after Ron Hall’s saucy lap dance sends Tanyel Revan’s heart racing](https://metro.co.uk/2023/02/08/love-island-ron-halls-lap-dance-sends-tanyel-revans-heart-racing-18250185/?ico=more_text_links) [urged viewers to contact her ](https://metro.co.uk/2023/02/08/this-morning-vanessa-feltz-asks-for-heartbreak-advice-after-split-18244656/)about the best ways to get over heartbreak, rather than the other way around, as usual. [Metro.co.uk](https://metro.co.uk) entertainment team by emailing us [email protected], calling 020 3615 2145 or by visiting our [Submit Stuff](https://metro.co.uk/submit-stuff/) page – we’d love to hear from you. [the 55-year-old](https://metro.co.uk/2022/11/21/ulrika-jonsson-struggles-to-look-in-the-mirror-as-face-is-collapsing-17799288/), who has been married three times and was most recently divorced in 2019, was keen to offer practical advice to the regular This Morning contributor. [Ulrika Jonsson](https://metro.co.uk/tag/ulrika-jonsson/) has offered her tips to [Vanessa Feltz](https://metro.co.uk/tag/vanessa-feltz/) on how to recover from heartbreak, agreeing that ‘it stinks’. [the end of her 16-year romance with fiancé Ben Ofoedu](https://metro.co.uk/2023/02/04/vanessa-feltz-confirms-split-from-fiance-ben-ofoedu-after-16-years-18223997/), 50, confessing she was ‘shocked, sad and disappointed’ to be in this position. [The Sun](https://www.thesun.co.uk/tv/21309524/heart-broken-vanessa-feltz-cope-ulrika-jonsson/). [following his cheating](https://metro.co.uk/2021/06/28/vanessa-feltzs-heartbreak-of-ex-husbands-affair-after-matt-hancock-14838112/) after 17 years of marriage. [recently hit by infidelity claims](https://metro.co.uk/2023/02/06/vanessa-feltz-in-top-spirits-as-shes-seen-after-split-from-ben-ofoedu-18232495/), with Vanessa reportedly discovering social media messages between Ben and other women.

The This Morning star spoke to ITV hosts Holly and Phil about her break up from Ben Ofoedu, saying it was both 'sudden and gradual'.

I don't want to dwell on anything or the details and I really do want to focus on the future and I want to focus on telling myself there is a future. She added: "When you go into a room or a restaurant or work and you know every single person knows your private business, that's not a nice feeling obviously but on the other hand, people come and give you a big cuddle and you don't need to keep explaining it as everybody already knows it. I feel as if I am literally in the eye of the storm at the minute and I haven't got to the bit where you look back at it, I'm right in it and anything anyone can tell me about getting through it, I would be very grateful, I really would." I'd love it if people phoned in and told me how they got over it themselves! To believe in your own relationship isn't stupid." Vanessa told Holly and Phil she's very grateful for the messages of support she has been receiving on social media.

Bosses at E4 show Celebs Go Dating are said to be incredibly keen to get Vanessa Feltz on their show and will offer big bucks to make it happen, ...

That isn’t a ridiculous thing to do. I am absolutely determined to put my best foot forward, to keep on trucking, all that sort of stuff 'Keep calm and carry on'. [Channel 4](https://www.mirror.co.uk/all-about/channel-4) and Vanessa for comment. [This Morning](https://www.mirror.co.uk/all-about/this-morning) today, Vanessa said she has found [enormous solace](https://www.mirror.co.uk/tv/tv-news/vanessa-feltzs-heartbreaking-promise-bravely-29165181) in the support she has received from others. [ITV](https://www.mirror.co.uk/all-about/itv) studio. [Gemma Collins](https://www.mirror.co.uk/all-about/gemma-collins), Sinitta, [Laura Anderson](https://www.mirror.co.uk/tv/tv-news/who-laura-anderson-saucy-cabin-12610982) and Joey Essex. [Holly Willoughby](https://www.mirror.co.uk/all-about/holly-willoughby) and Phillip Schofield: “When you have to end a relationship it’s very hard. [The Sun:](https://www.thesun.co.uk/tv/21315532/vanessa-feltz-dating-show-split-fiance-ben-ofoedu/) "Vanessa [ is top of the wish list when it comes to casting.](https://www.thesun.co.uk/who/vanessa-feltz/) [Celebs Go Dating](https://www.mirror.co.uk/all-about/celebs-go-dating) bosses are said to be keen for Vanessa Feltz to appear on the show and are going to "pull out all the stops" to make it happen. The source added that the nation adore Vanessa and she has been dignified and brave in dealing with the split, with the public wishing her a happy ending. [had broken up](https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/disappointed-vanessa-feltz-splits-fianc-29132998) after 16 years together, later speaking of how she felt "terribly humiliated", but would not let the shock of the split consume her. "Talks with potential cast mates are going to begin next month and producers are willing to throw big money Vanessa's way in a bid to get her to sign on the dotted line."

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The broadcaster, 60, revealed in recent days that she and her fiancé, 50, had parted ways amid claims he ' cheated with several other women '.

She said: 'Both, I think, terrible shock and a kind of gradual thing' She said later on in the show: 'I want to fall in love again. To really gather all the love and spend time having a good time. I want there to be. So I'm trying to do a professional job and bear up.' I feel sad, I feel hurt, terribly humiliated, but lots have said you shouldn't.

Vanessa Feltz says she feels 'foolish' for having faith in her relationship. It comes after the radio presenter says she does not know why her partner Ben ...

You know that everyone knows your private business, but on the other hand, you don't have to keep explaining it and everyone gives you a cuddle." To really gather all the love and spend time having a good time." She said: "Both, I think, terrible shock and a kind of gradual thing, It's often the case, a mixture of the two. Vanessa added: "For God's sake, I'm not alone, I've had it before, I've had a horrible divorce. She said she found a string of messages and emails from Ben to other women. The 60 year old appeared on [This Morning](https://www.nottinghampost.com/news/celebs-tv/) where she said she feels 'terribly humiliated'.

'Humiliated' Vanessa Feltz says she 'had to end' Ben Ofoedu relationship after 'terrible shock'. Broadcaster directly addressed split on 'This Morning'. Jacob ...

But to believe in your own relationship isn’t stupid.” Now it’s over, I don’t know.” I’ve had so many messages, it feels like millions, from people going through the same thing. People have been amazing.” And so I just wanted to say obviously I feel incredibly sad and I’m pretty disappointed and shocked and all those horrible things, but also full of resolve.” The pair were together for 16 years.

Vanessa Feltz candidly discussed how she is feeling after her split from her long-term partner Ben Ofoedu with pal Ulrika Jonsson on her TalkTV show.

"Not just for a broken heart, no no no," Vanessa said as the model continued: "Absolutely not but if you think it's a permanent thing and you think you can care for it then definitely. "But, actually what you should remember is that you are in your best... "And it's not because I don't want to put weight on it's just because I'm not hungry and that's not me at all." Sharing her feelings, Vanessa revealed: "I know that you said: 'I know you heart's broken' – probably technically it's not really, but I know I'm not myself because I'm not even going near the chocolate biscuits and normally I would want to but I'm not. [Ulrika Jonsson](https://www.mirror.co.uk/all-about/ulrika-jonsson) over her breakup – who has advised her to "embrace the pain". [Vanessa Feltz](https://www.mirror.co.uk/all-about/vanessa-feltz) has admitted she is "not herself" as she discussed how she is feeling after [her split from Ben Ofoedu.](https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/disappointed-vanessa-feltz-splits-fianc-29132998)

Vanessa, 60, reportedly parted ways with Ben, 50, after suspicions he had been cheating on her and has detailed her heartbreak since announcing the news of ...

It remains to be seen whether Vanessa will take them up on their offer but they are going to pull out all the stops, so watch this space." To believe in your own relationship isn't stupid." Talks with potential cast mates are going to begin next month and producers are willing to throw big money Vanessa's way in a bid to get her to sign on the dotted line. Following the heart-wrenching split, Vanessa, it's being reported, is being eyed up by E4 bosses for the new season of Celebs Go Dating. It's horrible. Vanessa, 60, reportedly parted ways with Ben, 50, after suspicions he had been cheating on her.

Vanessa Feltz is reportedly lined-up for Celebs Go Dating after announcing her split from fiancé Ben Ofoedu.

I haven’t got to the bit where I can look back on it, I’m right in it.’ [‘Humiliated’ Vanessa Feltz turns to This Morning viewers for ‘heartbreak advice’ after shock split from Ben Ofoedu](https://metro.co.uk/2023/02/08/this-morning-vanessa-feltz-asks-for-heartbreak-advice-after-split-18244656/?ico=more_text_links) [Ulrika Jonsson offers Vanessa Feltz breakup advice following ‘agony’ of split from fiancé Ben Ofoedu after 16 years](https://metro.co.uk/2023/02/08/ulrika-jonsson-gives-vanessa-feltz-breakup-advice-after-ben-ofoedu-split-18250360/?ico=more_text_links) [Ulrika Jonsson](https://metro.co.uk/2023/02/08/ulrika-jonsson-gives-vanessa-feltz-breakup-advice-after-ben-ofoedu-split-18250360/). [heart ‘snapped into a million pieces’ ](https://metro.co.uk/2023/02/07/vanessa-feltzs-heartbroken-after-split-from-fiance-ben-ofoedu-18236695/)and she’s been [left unable to sleep](https://metro.co.uk/2023/02/08/this-morning-vanessa-feltz-asks-for-heartbreak-advice-after-split-18244656/?ico=read_full_story_videopage). [relationship with Phats and Small singer Ben](https://metro.co.uk/2023/02/04/vanessa-feltz-confirms-split-from-fiance-ben-ofoedu-after-16-years-18223997/), 50, [who she became engaged to](https://metro.co.uk/2023/02/06/vanessa-feltz-ben-ofoedus-16-year-relationship-timeline-amid-split-18229471/) in 2006, [was over.](https://metro.co.uk/2023/02/05/vanessa-feltz-addresses-split-from-fiance-ben-ofoedu-in-new-video-18224951/) [Phillip Schofield](https://metro.co.uk/2022/11/16/phillip-schofield-refuses-to-apologise-over-queuegate-after-backlash-17766328/) and Holly Willoughby on Wednesday. [hit by infidelity claims](https://metro.co.uk/2023/02/04/vanessa-feltz-confirms-split-from-fiance-ben-ofoedu-after-16-years-18223997/), with Vanessa reportedly discovering social media messages between Ben and other women. [Vanessa Feltz ](https://metro.co.uk/tag/vanessa-feltz/)is reportedly lined-up for [Celebs Go Dating](https://metro.co.uk/tag/celebs-go-dating/?ico=auto_link_entertainment_P1_LNK1) after announcing her split from fiancé [Ben Ofoedu](https://metro.co.uk/2023/02/06/vanessa-feltz-in-top-spirits-as-shes-seen-after-split-from-ben-ofoedu-18232495/). [Metro.co.uk](https://metro.co.uk) entertainment team by emailing us [email protected], calling 020 3615 2145 or by visiting our [Submit Stuff](https://metro.co.uk/submit-stuff/) page – we’d love to hear from you. [The Sun](https://www.thesun.co.uk/tv/21315532/vanessa-feltz-dating-show-split-fiance-ben-ofoedu/): ‘She’s been so brave and dignified with how she has dealt with this break-up, and the nation absolutely love her.

The former Gladiators star has offered her advice to Vanessa and called her TalkTV show to tell her to "embrace the pain".

[being eyed up by Celebs Go Dating bosses ](https://www.dailyrecord.co.uk/entertainment/celebrity/celebs-go-dating-bosses-want-29171471)following her split. "She must feel that adultery and betrayal continue to cast a shadow over her pursuit of happiness. Detailing her break up advice, Ulrika advised Vanessa, and anyone else suffering from heartbreak, to turn to their friends. you're like the fittest you've ever been, the best looking and you're in the greatest shape!" And it's not because I don't want to put weight on it's just because I'm not hungry and that's not me at all." Appearing via a video link on Vanessa's show on Wednesday night, the 55-year-old offered her advice to her friend through the difficult time.